If you have read my blog before you may be familiar with my views on New Year. Each year on this date I publish my annual message to the nation setting out my views on the festivities. So here it is: Try telling anyone, as they are liberally splashing Hugo Boss over their manly chest or donning a posh frock (not necessarily the same person you understand) that New Year is a stupid celebration and they look at you like you have just told them you are off to join a commune of some strange religious sect. Now that it's all over I will explain why I have never quite understood the need to draw an arbitrary line in the sand of time and call it a new year. For that is all it is: an administrative necessity to have a beginning and an end of the so called year. I understand why it is convenient to have one but why celebrate it?.. nothing changes.At least Christmas, Eid or Divali have some sort of symbolism, even if you don't believe the in the spirituality that goes with them; but new year is a nothing. If we are going to celebrate it we might as well celebrate it in April when at least the accountants have something to be pleased about.For many people this idea of taking stock of the previous twelve months and looking forward to the next is anathema. The time to take stock is when it is right for you. That is why so many new year resolutions fail: people are forced into resolving when their hearts are not in it. When you really want to do something do it; make a plan, find your motivation for achieving it and go for it. Away with this clap trap.And by way of a cheery note on which to end; did you know that the early hours of new year morning are the most common time for suicide. Surprised? You shouldn't be when thousands of people who have had a shit year and another shit one to come are forced to reflect on the fact.Happy New Year!
Now normally my grumpiness is tempered by watching Jools Holland's Hootenanny, there's something cheering about good music, a bit of a laugh and great music (and some good whisky), this year though my heart isn't in it. Why? Because a friend of mine was purchasing tickets for Hootenanny and, just before putting in his credit card details, he glanced over the details of his order. The date of the event was, wait for it, in November. Not quite the same is it? So thanks Jools - wherever you are. Probably watching Hootenanny on his own wearing his slippers, reflecting on his deception of the nation. Sheesh.
Thursday 31 December 2009
Crofty's Message To The Nation on this Pointless Celebration
Crofty's Message To The Nation on this Pointless Celebration
If you have read my blog before you may be familiar with my views on New Year. Each year on this date I publish my annual message to the nation setting out my views on the festivities. So here it is: Try telling anyone, as they are liberally splashing Hugo Boss over their manly chest or donning a posh frock (not necessarily the same person you understand) that New Year is a stupid celebration and they look at you like you have just told them you are off to join a commune of some strange religious sect. Now that it's all over I will explain why I have never quite understood the need to draw an arbitrary line in the sand of time and call it a new year. For that is all it is: an administrative necessity to have a beginning and an end of the so called year. I understand why it is convenient to have one but why celebrate it?.. nothing changes.At least Christmas, Eid or Divali have some sort of symbolism, even if you don't believe the in the spirituality that goes with them; but new year is a nothing. If we are going to celebrate it we might as well celebrate it in April when at least the accountants have something to be pleased about.For many people this idea of taking stock of the previous twelve months and looking forward to the next is anathema. The time to take stock is when it is right for you. That is why so many new year resolutions fail: people are forced into resolving when their hearts are not in it. When you really want to do something do it; make a plan, find your motivation for achieving it and go for it. Away with this clap trap.And by way of a cheery note on which to end; did you know that the early hours of new year morning are the most common time for suicide. Surprised? You shouldn't be when thousands of people who have had a shit year and another shit one to come are forced to reflect on the fact.Happy New Year!
Now normally my grumpiness is tempered by watching Jools Holland's Hootenanny, there's something cheering about good music, a bit of a laugh and great music (and some good whisky), this year though my heart isn't in it. Why? Because a friend of mine was purchasing tickets for Hootenanny and, just before putting in his credit card details, he glanced over the details of his order. The date of the event was, wait for it, in November. Not quite the same is it? So thanks Jools - wherever you are. Probably watching Hootenanny on his own wearing his slippers, reflecting on his deception of the nation. Sheesh.
Monday 28 December 2009
Awkard Conversations - Why We Should Have More of Them and Why Our Policies Make It Less Likely We Will
Saturday 19 December 2009
Ducks Discover They Are Living In A Hard Water Area
Saturday 5 December 2009
The Works Do - A Cultural Phenomenon, or Just a Good Night Out?
Here is my checklist of essentials - feel free to add your own: Getting ready: 1. Men should get by with as little effort as possible, if it takes longer than twenty minutes to get ready, it's taking too long. 2. Women should treat the event like a royal ball or gala dinner (which invariably won't be) 3. Women must spot which of the men are wearing the same clothes as last year 4. Men should at least make a token pretence at discretion when assessing their female colleagues' frocks Food: 1. Turkey. That's it. Any deviation from this rule should be presented in such a manner as to be barely edible 2. Food of whatever type should make every effort to remind the diners of school dinners 3. Place settings must include crackers containing barely recognisable plastic novelties of no value whatsoever 4. Hat wearing is compulsory. Disco must include any of the following: Merry Christmas Everybody - Slade Wish It Could Be Christmas Every Day - Wizard Stop The Cavalry - Jonah Louis (spelling?) Wombling Merry Christmas Fairy Tale of New York - Pogues and Kirsty McColl (bless her) The one by Gregg Lake In Dulci Jubilo - Mike Oldfield (These are my essentials - the rule is that they should all be from the era when you got your first Christmas snog... Ahem...I was very young) The final rule is that the remainder of the evening should disappear in a blur only to reappear the following week as office myth and legend. I'm on my way to ours, on a bus as I write this. I intend to try and capture the mood via Twitter using hash tag #worksdo
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